Birstall Post Nov. 2001 (215) cont. |
Planning applicationsR G Everitt - erection of 2nd storey extension over garage
to side of semi detached house. 33 Woodgate Drive Your Say... At 3.15pm on the 29th June 2001, 28 of us set out on a Journey
of Discovery to the Wintershall Estate in Surrey, to witness
Englands answer to Oberammergau. This is an open air play
in three acts of the Life of Christ. |
| The last issue of the Birstall Post had a most
poignant poem from 15 year old Becca Needham about the terrorist
attacks on America on September 11. I wanted to write to thank
Becca for this thoughtful, mature, contribution to your paper.
We live in uncertain times, many people are saying that they
will remember where they were when these terrible events happened,
much as they did for the assassination of John F Kennedy. For
my part I was on Sibson Road with some VIPs and other Councillors
for the opening of some of the enhancement area, the picture
of this also in the October edition was taken about the time
the second plane hit the twin towers, the opening which marked
the completion of phase 1 seemed to pale into insignificance. I dont know that I hear the voices as Becca puts it, I struggle to cope with the enormity of it, 16,000 lorry loads of rubble removed from the site in four weeks, and still a pile five stories high, but I certainly wake each day fearing what the morning news will bring, a feeling I have never had before. Nigel Coleman, Chairman Birstall Parish Council |
|
Yet again this year youth leaders of Longslade Community College organised a fun-packed fortnight of activities for our 8-12 year olds in the second half of July. This scheme has been running for so long now that I think it is rather taken for granted. But I should like to thank the hard working team of people who work so hard to make it a success.
|
| The Riverside Community Primary School and The
Riverside Family Association would like to thank everyone who
supported us at our September Fete and special thanks to the
following businesses for donating prizes:- Tomorrows World Travel, Glenwood Fine Art, The Bakery, Petes Fruit & Veg, Supacare, Mark Patrick Butchers, Good Companions, Coombs, Birstall Hair & Nail Studio, Crazy Prices, Notions, McColls, Gordon Davis Chemist, Louise Kelham Photography, Choicewise, Shoepermarket, Krustys, New World Florist, Birstall Jewellers & Anne-El-Maria. Thanks again to you all. Angie Smith, Treasurer Riverside Family Association for Riverside School |
| We just wanted to email you to thank you for
such a good website. Originally from Birstall we are now living
in Turkey and you can get pretty homesick out here. Now we feel
in touch with Birstall every month as we can read whats
happening. Keep up the good work. Daniel and Linda Rhodes (Bethany, Katy and Michael) |
| In May the garden at 18 Park Road was open two
days running for the National Gardens Scheme to raise money for
charity. Sunday 13th was a really lovely day and many visitors
came. Monday was cool and wet but a few brave folk came and supported
us. Altogether £620 was raised, the best figure yet. We
would like to thank all those who came and those who supported
the opening in other ways, particularly Roy White who grows plants
for the stall each spring and Ivy Clay who comes each year to
help energetically in the kitchen. The dates for 2002 when the garden will be open again are May 19 & 20 from 2pm. Please make a note on next years calendar or in your diary and come again. We would be pleased to see you. David and Rosie Ives |
| The concert performed at St James Church on
Saturday September 22 by the 663 Ensemble & Friends raised
a total of £561 which has been divided between the church
and local hospices. Grateful thanks to all who supported the
evening. Cynthia Coltman |
| A wet, wild & wonderful event was held in
September on Watermead Country Park. I attended this excellent event and was very disappointed at your coverage of it ie a picture of a lovely old car along with two lines of writing. You could have mentioned the dog trials which everyone (including the dogs) enjoyed, ferret racing, pet handling, coracles, windsurfers and canoes were in action on the water (free trials of canoeing), fly fishing competitions, many interesting marquees, not to mention lots of tasty things to eat etc. Proceeds were in aid of Rainbows Childrens Hospice. The weather stayed fine, if windy, and I would like to thank the park wardens and other organisers for holding such an unusual and enjoyable show on our doorstep. Joy Norton |
My son is addicted to heroinHEROIN ABUSE is a serious problem in Birstall, affecting
the lives of hundreds of people - the users, as well as their
family and friends. |
| The front door opens and I give a sigh of relief,
he's home safe "Thank you God". He'd been gone about
an hour during which time my heart thumped, my head ached and
the pumping of my blood through my body was so loud I felt ill.
He walked upstairs and went into his bedroom, stayed a few seconds
and then went to the loo. The whole cycle of fear starts again,
you see my son is a 'heroin addict' he had just been to get his
supply. My next fear is, is the drug pure enough for him to survive!
When he leaves the house I am torn, I want to scream, to fling
myself about like a mad women, to rant and rave against him,
God, dealers anyone - anyone- anyone. I pray he does not get
caught, I pray he gets caught, I turn on my husband who understands
fully my pain and hurt but he is no help, he has his own pain
and hurt to deal with, we are different and have different ways
of dealing with it. But at the same time we support each other,
in some ways our love has grown stronger and in some ways also
weaker. Nothing in life could prepare you for this 'living hell' you can liken it to several situations, standing behind a see-through STEEL barrier watching your child walk into fire, over a cliff or any life threatening situation and not being able to stop them. Your whole body sings with pain, each emotion and feeling is heightened to bursting point. Our life is taken over with worry, hurt and suspicion. Normal family life - in any degree- ceases! You permanently walk with shame, fearful of stopping to speak to friends or acquaintances in case they KNOW........ I want to walk proudly with my son, I listen to others telling me of their childrens achievements and lives, my heart is dark with pain and jealousy - something alien to me, I have always taken joy in others happiness and now when I say "Oh thats lovely, Im so happy for you" its just words. My shame in admitting that makes me feel worse. We love our son, we mourn the one we have lost but there are remnants in the one we have got. I look sometimes into his eyes and my heart breaks, he is in there waiting to be set free. Every aspect of our life is affected with heroin addiction, my family also hurt, we have always been a close knit family, now they try but they feel embarrassed, they do not know what to do consequently we have gone from most weekends visiting or having visitors to nothing and only occasional visits out, from the phone never stopping to silence. Why when drugs are involved does it become difficult to communicate, if he had cancer or any other terminal disease, my house would be full, my phone would constantly ring. Is the answer that we have become lepers, are they afraid that it is catching. We have learned to cope. The sad thing is I know people care but I can no longer make the effort, I need them to do that now, all our strength is being taken up by trying to live normally, and to keep my son safe and alive until he comes back. Birthdays, no card says 'Son we love you no matter what' even something so small as purchasing them causes trauma and tears, I have often had to leave a shop after reading the words I wish I could send to my youngest, the same as I do for the other two. Presents, the only thought when buying them is, will he sell this! and when asked by family what does Arthur want, I say no cash, they look, they know, they understand, they are embarrassed. Teenagers come to the door to be told to go away, my son knows no one 'normal'. Again another change, my house has always had an open door policy for my childrens friends! Now instead of answering the door with a smile, I glower and frown and answer stonily......... with my husband shouting in the background unrepeatable phrases for them to go away. Where did we go wrong, or did we. This scourge has hit this planet throughout the world, the silent war which has travelled under the guise of a 'low life' problem. Look around, open your eyes, it is across all walks of life, in a controlled situation it is being used and people are working using it! The only difference being they can keep their jobs because they can afford to pay for their habit. The fear is, has this got to be structured into life now - or have we got to fight it, become aware of it and destroy the people preying on our future generations, for the true dealers at the top are not addicts, they are parasites living on human misery, spreading the rippling misery through addiction. FOR GODS SAKE LISTEN, FOR YOUR OWN SAKE LISTEN AND BE AWARE, do not treat it as a infectious disease, HELP! stamp it out, find solutions, not only for my son but for any human being out there. They all come from families, parents, who are NORMAL (whatever that may be) . Have compassion and thank God in heaven if your children are safe. Remember it is not enough that they are, keep them that way and keep your future clean. It took two years for me to conceive my youngest and knowing what I know now, would I have persevered - Yes definitely! I already had two sons and the pregnancies had not been easy, no glowing skin or shiny hair, just nausea from day one to the end, and high blood pressure, I most certainly did not bloom and then with my third it all went haywire, if I got a cold it became flu, twice I threatened to miscarry, I was in and out of hospital with high blood pressure and once had a sick bug and ended up in hospital totally out of control, severely dehydrated and on a drip for three days. Towards the end things started to look up, started to feel a bit more energetic, and decided to take my two sons for a picnic in the fields at the back of the house, everything was okay until I got bitten! my leg swelled instantly to twice the size, a feat in itself as I am no small lady, I managed to get home and sit down with my legs up, the skin was tight and felt as if it would burst then my jaws clamped together! My husbands cousin rang the doctor and once again I was taken to hospital! I longed for the day when I could give birth and feel normal again! 28th October 1979 I was sitting watching 'the life of Mohammed Ali' the boxer with my husband and felt a need to go to the loo, nervously I realised I was in labour, Alan rang the hospital, arranged for the two boys to be looked after by my sister and took me in. My two other sons had been born at home and I wasn't looking forward to giving birth in hospital, but the doctor would not entertain a home birth due to the pregnancy problems. 2am, 29th October 1999 I looked into the bright red face a replica of my mother in law. My first words were good gracious its your Mum, we laughed as this tiny creature with my mother in law's face opened his eyes, yawned and went to sleep ( a habit, he has yet to break). Although I had longed for a daughter as soon as I looked at my son, all thoughts of a girl left, I was so happy. Believe it or not I was in a ward of 6, 5 baby girls and my son!! True to form Arthur slept 5-6 hrs at a time but when he woke for his feed, boy did we all know it, the nurses used to joke and very rarely kept him waiting. He was such a happy contented child and truly loved and adored by his brothers. Peter 7 became like a second Mum and saw to all his needs, James only 5 had little idea on that side so played with him instead including giving him sweets! I was always on guard and very often found sticky sweets in Arthurs tightly closed fists. His christening was a day to remember, happy and free and all remarked on what a lovely happy and contented baby he was. His life was, smiling, eating and sleeping. This was basically it until he was about 14 years. He had sailed through school, a good student in fact above average, his teachers had high hopes especially his science teacher who maintained he would have a brilliant career in research. Unfortunately things started to go wrong, he bunked off school, became rebellious and irritable and stubborn, we lived with this thinking it was the usual teenage years! We were wrong, we discovered he was smoking cannabis, we were really upset and tried to talk to him. He was indifferent to our efforts, on one side we had people telling us it was okay to smoke this stuff but our hearts told us NO it was wrong. His life has moved on to being totally taken up with drugs, when can I get, how can I get, if, how much can I get, The operative word being 'I' Arthur's drug taking is the centre of his own life and thats all he exists for. He still loves us, he worships his 3 year old niece but the difficulty is finding the correct help for him to stop. He tries and fails, fastrack is insufficient, he and many others need more, they need a concentrated programme in a rehabilitation centre with follow up help. No centre exists in Leicester the nearest is Sussex, £400 per week (some centres charge £1000 per week), one bed in Glenfield hospital, where they are treated alongside with mental patients, with less compassion, the doctor in charge has written them off before they arrive, the system in there is not working and instead of realising it is not the right help the addicts are blamed for the unsuccessful outcome. Why don't you throw him out, make him stand on his own two feet, ( I have seen users in this situation and there is nothing to hold them back, they deteriorate rapidly) make him get a job, (users very rarely are consistent in work unless maintained as they have to have the drug at regular intervals) make him stop, (we have tried) lock him up, (we have done this) stop feeding him, (he borders on malnutrition as it is users do not need food) don't let him, youre too soft, youre not hard enough - these are all phrases being constantly thrown at us and I reply. He's, our son, we love him, we would care for him if he was disabled, we brought him into this world, we have done this alone waiting for help, this is the way it works for us in order to have some semblance of family work. It is killing me living with him but I would die without him. Eventually he will realise how much we love him and how much he loves us, and with the correct help, then that will be enough. We are keeping him safe, free from crime to feed his habit, he does not at present claim benefits as he has not the commitment to go each week to sign on and we are too ashamed to insist, at least we are paying not the government. It has taken 5 years from cannabis to heroin for us to reach this decision, its hard, and we have together other parents in the same position started a support group, each having their own ways of dealing with the problem, but we support each other and are in touch with various groups, ie Paget House, Addiction, NHS Drug team, and police trying to find answers and to provide correct help for this 'lost generation' The drug problem is serious, it is the dealers who benefit, the user thinks they can take it or leave it until they take it and then they are hooked, unless answers are found it will destroy the major countries of the world and still it is classed as a 'low life' problem. NO it is an underground problem which people are choosing to ignore or kick under the carpet. On the other side of the coin and one of which I am fully aware is the crime resulting from drug addiction. Whilst not all crimes committed are by drug users, I am sure the percentage is high, so please do not think that I accept or ignore this spinoff activity. We have suffered within our own home not only from our own son but also from his fellow users. Precious items, everyday items, rarely used items - trips spent retrieving things from pawn shops, searches made amongst secondhand shops - all in the hope that these items maybe found. You will find that the majority of drug users commit crime within their own home for the most part and it is only when this source is exhausted that they turn outside the home, and commit petty crimes. There is of course a second type of user who go on to become hardened criminals and evolve into dealers of drugs and fencers of stolen goods, moving up the tree as it were! But I strongly feel this type would have resorted to crime anyway, whilst the catalyst is drugs. For any teenager, parent, or partner reading this please remember once you start taking drugs you no longer have a CHOICE ......... your choice becomes a NEED! |
| The Susan Jones Family Trust meet in the Village
Hall, Birstall once a month, providing support for the families
of drug users. They can be contacted at PO Box 6006, Anstey Leicester. Another contact is the Leicester Drug Advice Centre 2470200. |
|
|
60s, 70s, 80s Disco at The Luther King Centre Longslade Community College Wanlip Lane, Birstall on Saturday November 17 7.30-11.30pm Over 18s only Licensed Bar, Trafficator Disco, Raffle Tickets £5 Tel: 07940513873 * * * Charnwood Conservative Association Christmas Fair November 17 from 10.30am to 12noon at the Rothley Centre Stephen Dorrell MP will be attending Father Christmas and various stalls Entrance 20p * * * Belgrave Ladies Bowling Club Autumn Fayre on Saturday November 24 from 10am to 12noon Homemade Cakes - Bumper Raffle, Books, Tombola, Bric-a-Brac etc Coffee Shop Belgrave Bowling Club, Thurcaston Road (first right turn off Abbey Lane after Redhill Circle) * * * Birstall St James Monday Group Christmas Fair on Saturday December 1 from 11am - 3pm in Birstall Village Hall Stalls, Raffle, Hamper etc & Lunches Admission free All proceeds to Rainbows & LOROS. * * * Birstall Flower Club invites you to watch Margaret Rumens demonstrate Christmas Flowers at the Village Hall, Birstall on November 28 at 7.15pm Members £3; Non-members £6 Includes Wine & a Mince Pie Tickets from: Sylvia Simes 2674206, Mary Linnett 2672247, Pat Hipwell 2675926 Bring a Friend and have a Fun Evening * * * Christmas Coffee Morning on Wednesday November 7 in the Community Room at Highcliffe Primary School from 9am - 1pm Top Quality Cards and Paper, Sales Table, Christmas Decorations, Tombola Proceeds to Acorn Funds Please come and support us * * * Wanlip Christmas Coffee Morning Saturday November 24 from 10am-1pm in Wanlip Church Hall Various stalls including Plants, Tombola, Leather Goods, Christmas Crafts/Decorations, Cards, Paintings, Toys, Almost New and Hamper Raffle Light refreshments available Admission free * * * Leicester Symphony Orchestra LOROS Gala Night Thursday November 15 7.45pm A full evening of orchestral pieces, arias and duets by Bizet, Sullivan, Verdi, Puccini, Lehar, Wagner, Rossini, Gounod, Glinka, Mozart and Delius. Soprano: Katerina Mina Tenor: Dominic Natoli * * * Birstall Methodist Church Garden Trail 2002 Saturday 22 and Sunday 23 June * * * 2002 Birstall Festival/Queens Golden Jubilee Celebrations Any individuals or organisations are welcome to attend a public meeting on November 19 at 7pm in The Village Hall * * * Birstall Royal British Legion Womens Section Coffee Morning in aid of The Poppy Appeal Friday November 9 from 10am to 12noon Cake Stall, Book Stall, Tombola, Bric-a-Brac All welcome * * * Birstall Fellowship Church invite you to hear A Vets Experience A talk in the My Life & Faith series on Wednesday November 14 at 7.30pm in the Community Room, Highcliffe School, Greengate Lane * * * Riverside Community Primary School Applying for a School Place? Will your child be 5 years old on or before August 31 2003? If you have not yet applied for a school place please call at the school office to complete the necessary admission forms * * * Birstall Scouts Christmas Bazaar Saturday December 1 at 2pm at Scout HQ Birstall Road Cakes, Toys, Games, Books, Bric-a-Brac, Refreshments Adult admission 20p * * * Age Concern Birstall & Wanlip Annual General Meeting at 7.30pm on Wednesday November 7 at St James Day Care Centre Everyone welcome * * * Birstall Social Club Members Notice Nov 3 Dancing to Kevin Thompson Nov 10 Dancing to Harmony Nov 17 Dancing to Alfs Music Nov 24 Dancing to Ready Mix Sound Dec 1 Dancing to Alfs Music Dec 2 Sunday Childrens Christmas Panto Admission to ticket only Free admission Bingo Sat, Sun nights, Thurs plus Crack the Safe, Sun lunch plus Cash Raffle Function room available for bookings with or without disco Giant TV screen for all Sky TV Sports Events Tues nights are Dons Dance Nights Come and enjoy yourselves Its the place to be * * * Members Notice Birstall Royal British Legion Club Sat Nov 3 Twinz (duo) Sat Nov 10 Shine (duo) Sat Nov 17 Mr D (solo) Sat Nov 24 Bryan Ricky (solo) Sat Dec 1 Phill Voss (solo) Fri Nov 9 Womens Section Coffee Morning from 10am to 12noon Sat Nov 10 The Poppy Dance starting at 8.30pm Sun Nov 11 is Remembrance Day Wed Nov 14 Whist Drive starting at 7.30pm Thurs Nov 29 Branch AGM starting at 8pm. All members are asked to attend. Every Tues night Bingo starting at 9.30pm Every Sat night dancing to live entertainment, free meat raffle, Bingo and not forgetting Open the Box. Subscriptions are now overdue * * * Want to play Rugby for a local team? Birstall RFC Urgently need to increase their squad Interested? Call now 0116 2207062 * * * Foreign & UK stamps now being collected for CORD a Christian organisation helping refugees and needy people in various parts of the world. Please cut stamps from the envelope leaving a wide border. They can be left at the St James Church Office, Church Hill on Wednesdays and Fridays 10am-4pm |
Age Concern Info |
| AGE CONCERN INFO Charnwood Lifeline This service is available to any resident of Charnwood Borough. An alarm unit can be installed in your home or if you prefer to keep your own telephone it can be converted. All you need is a telephone socket and a 13amp power point. The alarm unit comes with a pendant which can be used 100 metres away. Simply by pressing either the red button on the alarm telephone or your pendant you will send a signal direct to the Control Centre where trained staff will quickly assess the situation and take any necessary action. The Lifeline service gives security and peace of mind in any emergency, 24 hours a day, 365 days of the year, at a very modest cost. If you would like to know more about Charnwood Lifeline, please telephone 01509 643970. Post War Credits: Amounts Unclaimed A Parliamentary Answer (20 Nov, 2000) which has recently been brought to Age Concerns attention states that an estimated £33 million of Post War Credits remains unclaimed. These Credits were issued following additional taxation imposed during the Second World War and repayments can still be made. The money people receive will vary although the amounts are modest - typically about £25. People who still have Post-War Credits and who wish to claim should contact::- HM Inspector of Taxes, Post-War Credit Centre, Ty Glas, Llanihsen, Cardiff CF14 5ZN Tel: 029 2032 6689. Retirement Flats: VAT on Service Charges In a Parliamentary Question the Chancellor of the Exchequer was asked what estimate he has made of the average cost to residents of retirement flats of the imposition of VAT on service charges. In reply, Dawn Primarolo said service charges to residents of retirement flats are exempt from VAT. Winter Fuel Payment for Winter 2001-2002 The Government has confirmed that the winter fuel payment for winter 2001-2002 will again be £200 for eligible households. It is urging people who need to claim in order to get a payment this year to do so as soon as possible in order to ensure that they receive their money before Christmas. Most people who are entitled to a payment will receive it automatically but some people will need to claim if they are: 65 during the week 17-23 September 2001; not expecting to get a state pension, Income Support or another benefit (excluding Housing and Council Tax Benefit) during that week; and have not previously received a payment. Most people over 60 are eligible for a payment of £100 or £200 although there are some exceptions, such as people who have been in hospital for over 52 weeks. It is estimated that around 500,000 people will become eligible for the payment for the first time this year. For more information about claiming, people can contact the winter fuel payments helpline: tel 08459 151515 or on the Internet at www.dss.gov.uk J Woods Chairperson Age Concern Birstall & Wanlip |
| home back to Back Issues list |